I’m the person you come to when your life is falling apart and you’re done pretending it’s fine.

Inner and Outer Work

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I'm not a coach. I'm not a therapist. I'm not a guru. I'm someone who has lived a thousand lives and has rebuilt myself more than once. Inner and outer work that's raw, honest and intentional - born from choosing myself again and again even when it hurts.

The Inner + Outer Work: 1:1 Guidance for Women in Transition

What We Do Together:

Identity Reset — Releasing old roles, stories, and survival patterns
Emotional Integration — Learning to feel, process, and move through your emotional landscape
Embodied Confidence — Rebuilding self‑trust and self‑expression
Life Reorientation — Clarifying what you want next and how to move toward it
Energetic Alignment — Returning to your natural rhythm, intuition, and power

Who This Is For

You’re a fit for this work if you’re a woman who is:

In a life transition — divorce, career change, motherhood shift, identity unraveling
Burned out from being “the strong one”
Done with self‑abandonment
Ready to feel again
Hungry for a life that feels like yours

How It Works

A simple, grounded structure that supports deep transformation:

Discovery Call We meet, feel the fit, and map what you’re moving through.
90‑Minute Intake Session We go deep into your story, patterns, desires, and current season.
Weekly or Biweekly Sessions 60‑minute sessions focused on emotional processing, identity work, and embodied integration.
Between‑Session Support Voice notes + check‑ins so you’re held through the in‑between.
Integration Practices Personalized rituals, prompts, and embodiment work.

What You Can Expect:

Clarity about who you are now
Emotional grounding instead of overwhelm
Confidence that comes from embodiment, not performance
A new relationship with your intuition
A life that feels aligned, not forced

Investment

You can choose the container that fits your season:

3‑Month Deep Dive
6‑Month Transformation
Single Session Intensives

Pricing is transparent and discussed on the discovery call so we can choose the right fit.

Ready to Begin?

Your next chapter starts with one conversation.

Book a Discovery Call Ask a Question

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Deeper Work: Inner and Outer Work

Outer Work

The part everyone can see — the habits, systems, and environments that actually move your life forward. Not perfection. Just intentional choices that build momentum.

Weight loss with honesty and consistency — like helping my 86‑year‑old grandma drop 30+ pounds the slow, real way.
Nutrition that fuels you — energy over aesthetics.
Movement that makes you strong — not punishment, power.
Style that matches your identity — wearing who you are, not who you were taught to be.
A home that gives you mental space — clearing the chaos so you can breathe.
Joy and hobbies you forgot you loved — bringing life back online.
A year built with intention — rhythms that support your future self.
Money clarity and stability — a relationship with finances that isn’t rooted in fear.
Relationships that actually nourish you — choosing connection over depletion.
Career boundaries that protect your life — work that doesn’t swallow you whole.
Daily rituals that ground you — small anchors in a loud world.
Digital boundaries that keep you sane — curating your online world so it doesn’t run your real one.

Inner Work

This is where things get real. It’s the part you can’t curate or fake — the identity, the history, the grief, the questions that sit in your chest long after midnight. I’m not a therapist, but I hold grounded, honest conversations shaped by lived experience — the messy, beautiful, complicated parts of being human. If any of these themes resonate, we explore them with truth, compassion, and zero judgment.

Grief and loss - member of the DMC (Dead Moms Club)
Corporate life as a woman - 15+ years
Spiritual Lineage & Identity - Christian grandparents, Islamic grandparents, Buddhist great‑grandparents, and Hindu Aunt, Uncle and cousins
Third Culture Kid Reality - born in the U.S., shaped by 6 years in Kuwait, 3 in Malaysia, and 21 in Dubai; now rooted again in the U.S.
Biracial / Triracial identity - Malaysian mother (half Malay, half Chinese) and American Caucasian father
Divorce & Fragmented Home - instability, emotional whiplash, and learning to parent yourself
Adolescent Self‑Harm - the hidden coping mechanisms
Anorexia, Bulimia & Self‑Image - Growing up female in the 90s/2000s
Illiteracy and dyslexia - learned to read at 12 after non‑English schooling; later discovered I’m mildly dyslexic
Youth Correction Camp - somewhere between ages 10–13; my parents truly believed it was a regular summer camp
Child Abuse & Generational Violence - the “normal” discipline of that era: hangers, belts, wooden spoons
Boarding School & Early Separation - living with grandparents at 9, with little to no contact with my parents
Childhood Sexual Trauma - Age 5 by a stranger; age 9 by a school teacher for a full year

My mom's story

My mother was the definition of impact - quiet power, real generosity, zero performance.

Everything I do is her legacy in motion.

When she left this world, over 200 people showed up.

Not out of obligation.

Out of love.

Four charity projects now carry her name:

• A water well in Bangladesh

• A water well in Uganda

• A playground in Ghana

• A school in Mauritania

She touched places she never even stepped foot in.

Life CV

I’ve lived like a compass that refuses to lock into one direction. There’s a part of me that refuses to shrink, no matter who or what tries to box me in. I’ve moved through the world boldly, intentionally, and yeah sometimes chaotically but always wide awake. Every place has carved something into me, every challenge has taken something off me. What’s left is a life built on motion, curiosity, and choosing courage over comfort every damn time.

🌐 Identity & Skills

Speak four languages — English, Malay, Indonesian and basic Arabic
Tri‑racial identity — Malaysian mother (half Malay, half Chinese) and American Caucasian father
Lived on three continents — born in the U.S, shaped by 6 years in Kuwait, 3 in Malaysia, and 21 in Dubai. Now rooted once again in the U.S 3+ years. Full circle.

🌍 Adventure & Exploration

Traveled to 67 countries — and counting
Saw the Northern Lights in Iceland (Twice)
Sat at the edge of the Door to Hell in Turkmenistan
Swam in Devil’s Pool at Victoria Falls, Zambia
Gorilla trekking in Uganda (including being charged at by a Gorilla- Full video on my YouTube Channel)

🏔️ Mountains, Volcanoes & Physical Feats

Climbed Kilimanjaro (Tanzania)
Climbed Mount Kinabalu (Borneo)
Climbed Mount Batur (Indonesia)
Climbed Acatenango (Volcano in Guatemala)
Climbed Erta Ale (Volcano in Ethiopia)
Abseiled down a waterfall (Oman)
Ran the Dubai Marathon 10k - (Five times)
Completed Spartan Race, Tough Mudder & Sandpit Challenge (Lost count)
Learned to snowboard at 34 — (Ridden Snowmass, Park City, Lake Tahoe, Vail and Breckenridge)

🌊 Ocean, Wildlife & Adrenaline

PADI scuba certified (Dubai)
Swam with whale sharks (Djibouti)
Shark cage diving (Dubai Aquarium)
Crocodile cage diving (Zimbabwe)
White‑water rafting (Malaysia, Bali and Colorado)
Wakeboarding
Water Skiing
Surfing — stood up on day one of surf school in Bali

🚀 Extreme Experiences

Skydived
Bungee jumped
Indoor skydived
Hot air balloon rides (Napa Valley, Cappadocia Turkey, Kenya during the great migration, and Indianola Balloon festival in Iowa)
Helicopter rides (New York, Dubai and Victoria falls in Zambia)
Parasailed (2 times)

🎤 Media, Creativity & Public Presence

YouTube creator — Just under 10k subscribers, 92 videos, 867,079+ views
1 of 4 official host of Dubai Expo 2020 - (Hosted 39/100 Episodes)
Featured in TV commercials (Highlight: Dubai Comic Con)
Appeared on a billboards (Highlight: Infiniti)
Featured in magazines (Three times)
Appeared on ESPN.com online reality show about boxing (a glorious 11 seconds of air time)
Performed stand‑up comedy (Twice)
Former member of the TikTok creator Academy
Runner‑up, YouTube x Unilever's "Forsaty Challenge" (4,000+ participants)

🎪 Unique, Wild & Wonderfully Random

Attended Burning Man - Solo and sober
Carried 13 steins across a stage during Oktoberfest - Beer Maiden competition
Cat walked the Bubble Ball in Bubble Wrap outfits for a charity event (3 Times)
Mediocre Breakdance (but elite‑level party trick deployment)
Poi Spinner
Solid Aerial Silks and Aerial Hoop Performer (Earned a trophy at a student showcase)
Former Parkour Enthusiast (peaked on TikTok with a 2.6M viewed video)

This isn’t a list of accomplishments. It’s evidence. I’ve lived deeply, fully, and pushed limits and that everything I talk about comes from experience, not theory.

If you’re done pretending and finally ready to become who you say you are, I’m here. If you’re not, that’s fine. Come back when the cost of staying small finally scares you more than the work.

I’m the person you come to when your life is falling apart and you’re done pretending it’s fine.

Inner and Outer Work

I'm not a coach. I'm not a therapist. I'm not a guru. I'm someone who has lived a thousand lives and has rebuilt myself more than once.​ Inner and outer work that's raw, honest and intentional - born from choosing myself again and again even when it hurts.

The Inner + Outer Work: 1:1 Guidance for Women in Transition

What We Do Together:

Identity Reset — Releasing old roles, stories, and survival patterns

Emotional Integration — Learning to feel, process, and move through your emotional landscape

Embodied Confidence — Rebuilding self‑trust and self‑expression

Life Reorientation — Clarifying what you want next and how to move toward it

Energetic Alignment — Returning to your natural rhythm, intuition, and power

Who This Is For

You’re a fit for this work if you’re a woman who is:

In a life transition — divorce, career change, motherhood shift, identity unraveling

Burned out from being “the strong one”

Done with self‑abandonment

Ready to feel again

Hungry for a life that feels like yours

How It Works

A simple, grounded structure that supports deep transformation:

Discovery Call We meet, feel the fit, and map what you’re moving through.

90‑Minute Intake Session We go deep into your story, patterns, desires, and current season.

Weekly or Biweekly Sessions 60‑minute sessions focused on emotional processing, identity work, and embodied integration.

Between‑Session Support Voice notes + check‑ins so you’re held through the in‑between.

Integration Practices Personalized rituals, prompts, and embodiment work.

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What You Can Expect:

Clarity about who you are now

Emotional grounding instead of overwhelm

Confidence that comes from embodiment, not performance

A new relationship with your intuition

A life that feels aligned, not forced

Investment

You can choose the container that fits your season:

3‑Month Deep Dive

6‑Month Transformation

Single Session Intensives

Pricing is transparent and discussed on the discovery call so we can choose the right fit.

Ready to Begin?

Your next chapter starts with one conversation.

Book a Discovery Call Ask a Question .

Deeper Work: Inner and Outer Work

Outer Work

Grief and loss - member of the DMC (Dead Moms Club)

Corporate life as a woman - 15+ years

Spiritual Lineage & Identity - Christian grandparents, Islamic grandparents, Buddhist great‑grandparents, and Hindu Aunt, Uncle and cousins

Third Culture Kid Reality - born in the U.S., shaped by 6 years in Kuwait, 3 in Malaysia, and 21 in Dubai; now rooted again in the U.S.

Biracial / Triracial identity - Malaysian mother (half Malay, half Chinese) and American Caucasian father

Divorce & Fragmented Home - instability, emotional whiplash, and learning to parent yourself

Adolescent Self‑Harm - the hidden coping mechanisms

Anorexia, Bulimia & Self‑Image - Growing up female in the 90s/2000s

Illiteracy and dyslexia - learned to read at 12 after non‑English schooling; later discovered I’m mildly dyslexic

Youth Correction Camp - somewhere between ages 10–13; my parents truly believed it was a regular summer camp

Child Abuse & Generational Violence - the “normal” discipline of that era: hangers, belts, wooden spoons

Boarding School & Early Separation - living with grandparents at 9, with little to no contact with my parents

Childhood Sexual Trauma - Age 5 by a stranger; age 9 by a school teacher for a full year

My mom's story

Life CV

I'm not a coach. I'm not a therapist. I'm not a guru. I'm someone who has lived a thousand lives and has rebuilt myself more than once. Inner and outer work that's raw, honest and intentional - born from choosing myself again and again even when it hurts.

Book a Discovery Call Ask a Question

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